PLEASE RESPECT WOMEN

Hey guys, 

this is not going to be a the usual blog. After the resent events in India, I have something to say to all men out there. For those who respect women and their space I salute you. But for those who think they are strong and can force their strength on them, all I want to ask is why? Why can't you use your strength into something useful. Into something that wont hurt others? Women feel the same pain like you men do. If you are hurt by a knife women are hurt too.

Don't let them go through something you don't want yourselves to go through. Please use your energy and your strength into something better. You have brain and you can think and you can also make the right decision.

PLEASE CHOOSE TO RESPECT WOMEN.

What, When, How

What, When, How, - though these are just words when they are put as questions can sometimes frustrate and make a person crazy. What is my future? When will something good happen? How will it happen at all?

If we keep on thinking these things over and over again we will most certainly go cuckoo. People spend days, months and years thinking and worrying about these things.

Sometimes worrying is the easy way out. Though no one wants to worry we end up worrying eventually. The answer to our questions comes sooner or later but we are so caught up in the web of questions, we don’t really enjoy the answers like we dreamt.

Every answer comes with its own set of responsibilities and every responsibility has its own set of what, when and hows! Isn’t it a vicious circle?

The best example a food fanatic, like me, could give is a burger. The most vital component of a burger is its cutlet. But, the bun, sauce and veggies are equally important! Without them it’s just a cutlet.

Expecting just goodies as answers will just make your taste buds go sour. 

Our GOD is the GOD of surprises. A surprise before birthday will make us sad on the birthday and a surprise after birthday is not a birthday surprise. Surprise on birthday is what makes it fun!

GOD knows the right day to give you the big surprise. Your surprise is as real as GOD is! Friends always remember, the more the waiting, the greater the surprise! And when that day comes (which most certainly will) don’t forget to enjoy it and of course be thankful to God! 

Watch your Mouth - Part I

Hi readers!

Welcome to my page!

And now I shall start talking.

Sometimes I wonder if people’s brains are connected to their tongues or not. Or maybe they just cannot hear themselves talking. Why I think like that, you ask? Well I am pretty sure that you would have heard people saying hurtful things to you like its nothing. They assume they are talking normally when in fact they are shooting arrows at you with your words.

And they seem to be completely unaware of it! They just keep doing this and wonder why nobody likes them. Or maybe they don’t wonder at all. They just live in their own world, happily throwing stones at others. Who is going to talk to them? How are they going to learn that they have to think  before they speak!

It’s funny how they have no idea that they are hurting people at all! They might even go ahead and lecture you on social skills! They are that ignorant!

Well I don’t think that I have to assume, but all of us have been that person at least once in our lives. We have intentionally or unintentionally hurt someone with our words. And that make me real sad.

I have learnt it the hard way not to hurt people with my words. Once I realized that I was being mean, I had to educate myself (because unfortunately there are no classes on “how not to be a mean person”). Believe me it is not fun to think every time before you talk. And I am not telling you that I am the master of ‘talking nice’. I am still a work in progress. But at least I have realized what I was doing was wrong and the next step was just learning how to correct my mistake.

Proverbs 12:18 says “Rash language cuts and maims, but there is healing in the words of the wise.” (The Message Translation). How awesome it would be if we could just learn how to talk nice to people. It is high time that we all realize that our words have huge impact on the people around. The words we speak cannot be taken back. We cannot apologies forever and neither is everyone going to give us second chance. We have to correct ourselves now before it is too late.

I mean, it takes us 2 years or more to learn to speak and then forever to speak nice. But I am pretty sure it’s not impossible.

There is a lot I want to speak on this topic. But I really love my blogs to be short. So I am going to continue on this topic in future posts.

So to sum up this post, Next time we say anything let us ask ourselves if it will hurt the other person or not, and then talk. If what we are about to say is going to be hurtful lets think twice and not say it at all. And if you must confront the other person do it in such a way that the other person is convicted of his actions and not convinced of you being a rude person and then shut you off forever thereby you loosing the opportunity of correcting that person ever. Remember to choose your words wisely.

Till we meet again, GOD bless you

Loads of Love to you my readers!

Silver Lining

Hi there !

This is a thought you might know already. But, its been long since I thought about this proverb, and today while I was travelling this proverb struck me and I started to ponder on this thought for a while. Its funny how some things make sense in one way and completely different the next time.

The proverb is "every cloud has a silver lining". I don't know every time I say or think about this proverb, I immediately think of  the movie "Stuart Little 2". Is it the same with you guys? Ok, I don't think you would be as crazy as I am. Anyway, in that movie a father explains this proverb to his "Son" (a mouse!) that, there is always something good behind those dark and gloomy clouds. And that every dark could bring a bright sunny morning.

Its a beautiful thought. The thing is we don't know how bright that day would be, or how long it would last. But, its there, surely there. The more we ponder on this thought, the more we have a reason to be happy. We see the clouds and know good days are coming. And we see the good days and thank GOD for the wait we had to endure and say "it was all worth it!"

Sometimes the anticipation of good days gives us joy. But there is a fine line between anticipating good days and expecting way too much. It is easy to jump from the former to the latter in no time. I am not asking you to not expect great things from GOD. But we must also be real.

We have to labour in the field to expect great harvest. We cannot and should not day dream and expect GOD to do everything for us. It is wrong. And there is no use crying later on. Today is in our hand. Let us make the best use of it. Like this saying, "You give your best, and GOD will do the rest".

And for those folks who have worked hard and are waiting for their reward, there is surely a great reward for you! Your bright, happy and Blessed days are coming! Please wait patiently and in due time you will reap your harvest! Good days are coming and I congratulate you in advance for them!

Stay happy because greater things are yet to come!

love you guys

GOD bless you !!!